Wednesday, February 9, 2011

UBC Day 6

This is my 300th Post! Dang. I should probably give my blog a new look. Even though I sort of gave it a makeover when I got married. But I want to figure out how to make two side bars on my blog. One on each side. Someone should hook me up with a tutorial for that. PLEASE :)

Day 6 — Write a letter to: A stranger

Dear stranger that decided to stop my birthdaughter and her mom at Walmart,

I know there were two people that stopped them at Walmart on my birthdaughter's first birthday. I'm not talking about the sweet redheaded girl who stopped them. I'm talking about the one who decided she couldn't keep her mouth shut. The one who is anti-adoption and decided it was okay to share her opinion and how adoption is wrong. Are you kidding me? Of ALL days to stop them you decided to do it on my birthdaughter's first birthday? First of all, they didn't even know you. I don't even know you. But you decided to give an impression that you have no common courtesy and only care about yourself. Why would you even share your views to someone who clearly is for adoption and has adopted? And I know you read my blog or else you wouldn't have stopped them in a public place. If you have any opinions about my blog or about adoption. You can bring them up with ME. You were WAY out of line and yes, I'm going to stick up for them because they are family to me. They are the ones raising my daughter when I know I wouldn't give her the best possible life. Will you PLEASE tell me that's so totally wrong? It's not like they bought her off of me or snatched her out of my arms. I willing and lovingly placed her in their arms. If I were you and you recgonized them, I would've just walked on by. Because really, they could've gone on with their lives without you and you could've done the same without them in your life. So please, spare me your opinion and don't even bother telling me it to me. I can do without you in my life. If you or any of you reading this are anti-adoption then click the "x" in the right hand corner of your screen. I didn't invite you to read this. Yes, it is an open blog but give me a break I can't help it if you happen to come across it. If you really have an issue then you can go find an anti-adoption blog or website and cry your feelings out there because I don't care about you and don't even bother want to waste my time with you. Thanks! Have a great day!

Tell me: A song that reminds of you of somewhere
The story behind this that it reminds me of somewhere. It's just funny. I was in Oregon right after I had Olivia. Me and my sister were driving and we got lost and we ended up going to the Washington border and drove through Seattle and this song came on my ipod.

I want to know: Your favorite music video.

Show me A photo of an animal you’d love to keep as a pet.
Who does NOT want a baby lion???!
I want to snuggle with it.


  1. Hey Stef to do three sidebars you click Design.
    Then go to Template Designer and Layout. You can choose three columns there. If you are using Mozilla Firefox it won't work for some reason blogger is having issues with it. So use Internet Explorer or something!
    Love all your posts... Happy 300th post :)

  2. That is sooo horrible! I am so sorry that happened to them.

  3. 300 posts, wow! That's an accomplishment. :] I love the new layout design.

  4. Well said. I love that you are not afraid to share.

  5. Oh my gosh! Hahha, wow that's crazy you would post about this...
    because I am that redhead that stopped Val & Olivia. I couldn't help my self, it was like the spirit or something kept telling me to say something, anything.. :) I have been following your blog, I am adopted too and it is such an amazing thing. I am so glad I found your blog, because you have answered & brought up some very good points! In some ways, it's been an answer to my prayers. I think you're AMAZING.. Thank you.. :)
    ps.. that is horrible what that other person did/said. They must not understand the greatness of adoption..

  6. love the new look, and i love the direction you took in your stranger letter. I have no idea what to write to a stranger...I guess I'll have to think about it some more..I have been for a few days, lol..

  7. You drove all the way to Seattle?

    That's amazing you've written 300 posts! (We barely have that many and we've been blogging a long time.)