Q&A

About Your Pregnancy:

Is this your first pregnancy?: Yes
When did you find out you were pregnant?: January 21st
Was it planned?: No
What was your first reaction?: Scared
Who was with you when you found out?: Just me and my family doctor.
Who was the first person you told?: My mom.
How did your parents react?: Considering the situation. I think they took it well.
How far along were you?: 4 weeks.
What was your first symptom?: I didn't really have a symptom that let me know, I missed my period, that's all. I went to the doctor cause I had an allergic reaction again. And he asked if the medicine I took for the last one made me miss my period. And I said, That's probably it. And he said, "We'll make sure." The test came out positive.
What is your due date?: September 24th, 2009
Do you know the sex of the baby?: Yes.
If so, what is it?: Girl :]
Have you picked out names?: Yes.
If so, what are they?: Olivia Kate.
How much weight have you gained?: Yeah... I don't even want to go there.
Do you have stretch marks?: Little baby ones on my thighs. I'm lathering that stretch mark lotion. No worries.
Have you felt the baby move?: Yes :]
Have you heard the heartbeat?: A few times.
About the birth: Home or hospital birth?: Hospital
Natural or medicated birth?: I haven't decided yet. I was going to play it by ear with everything. I just hear you heal faster from a natural birth. I'm totally okay with that if I have a lot of pain for a few hours.
Who will be in the delivery room with you?: I have NO idea. My mom, Dustinn and Valery, I don't think I want Nic there in the room-- probably just outside, and sisters.
Will you breastfeed?: No.
Do you think you'll need a c-section?: I hope not.
Will you cry when you hold the baby for the first time?: Of course I will!
What's the first thing you might say to him/her?: Hi Olivia :]
Would you let someone videotape the birth?: Sure? Ha. Just as long as it's not footage of me pushing or something. Ha.
Are you excited about the birth, or scared?: Both. I've never had a baby before!

About the mommy!
Name: Stefanie
Age: 19
First child?: Yes

About the daddy!
Name: Nic
Age: 22
First child?: Yes

Finding out!!
What day did u find out?: January 21
How did u feel when u found out?: Scared.
Who was with you?: The doctor? Ha.
Who was the first person you told?: My mom.
How did they react?: My mom said she was scared for me.
How did the daddy react?: He was excited at first. Then he got scared.

Telling the grandparents!
How did your parents react?: My dad wishes I was married. Well, I do too. Ha.
How did his parents react?: They told him that he wasn't ready to be a husband or a father.
Are they helping with baby names?: No.
Have they bought anything for the baby yet?: Not yet.
How often do they call to check on you?: I live with my parents. Nic's parents never call.

About the pregnancy!
When was your first appointment?: With the MA Feb 23. With the gyno March 10.
When is your due date?: September 24, 2009
How far along are you?: 25 weeks.
Pre-pregnancy weight?: 145
Weight now?: 157 :[
Have you had an ultrasound?: Yes.
Have you heard the heartbeat?: Yes.
What was the heartbeat?: The first time was around 160.

Sex of the baby!
What do you want?: I'm happy with my baby girl.
What does the daddy want?: He told me he wanted a boy.
What do you think you are having?: Girl. Ha.
Have you had your big ultrasound yet?: Yes :]
If so, what are you having?: Girl.
Are you happy with what you are having?: SO happy.

About the birth!
Do you know what you are taking with you?: Toothbrush.
Who is going to be with you?: Parents&Dustinn&Val
Are you going to videotape it?: I'm not going to, but someone else might.
Natural or medicated?: I haven't decided yet.
Do you think you will need a c-section?: I hope not.
Will you cry when you hold your baby for the first time?: Yep.
Do you know what you will say to the baby when you first hold him/her?: Look above.
Are you scared about the labor?: VERY

Names!!
Do you have a name picked out?: Some
Girl names: Olivia Kate J.
Boy names: I liked Oliver.
Is your baby going to be named after someone?: Her first name is the name I would've chosen if I was going to keep her. Then Kate is Val's great-grandmothers and sisters name.

Other random questions!!
Where was your baby conceived?: Awkward...
Have you felt the baby move?: Yes.
What race will your baby have?: Caucasian.
Do you have stretch marks?: :[
What was your first symptom?: Missed period? I was only 4 weeks along. I got morning sickness the day I found out!
What religion will the baby know?: Mormon. LDS.
What music or interests do you want the baby to know?: Any. I hope she'll be athletic :]
Will your baby have godparents?: I'm not sure.
Who will the god mommy be?: I have no idea.
Who will the god daddy be?: I have no idea.
What is the baby's room theme?: Pink and Girly?
What was the first thing you bought for the baby?: I have some onesies in my room that I bought for her when I was only like 12 weeks.
Are you ready to be a mommy?: Not exactly, but her mommy Valery is :]

My Pregnancy
Mother Name: Stefanie
Age: 19
Birthday: April 26, 1990
Birth Place: Syracuse, New York
Height: 5'8"
Pre-pregnancy weight: 145
Current weight: 157
Location: Lehi, Utah
Job: Counter girl at the Dubs.

RELATIONSHIP STATUS
Are you with the baby's father?: No.
Are you married?: No.
If together, how long have you been together?: We dated for about 6 months.

FIRSTS
Is this your first pregnancy?: Yes
How did you find out you were pregnant?: Doctor.
What kind of pregnancy test did you take?: Urine and Blood
How many?: 1 urine and 2 blood.
What were your first symptoms?: Missed period.
Who did you tell first?: My mom.
Who was with you when you found out?: The doctor.
Was baby planned?: No.
When was baby conceived?: January 2? According to some online thing.
When was your first appointment?: With Gyno. March 10.
How far were you when you found out?: 4 weeks.

REACTIONS
What was your reaction?: Scared and I cried.
What was the baby's father's reaction?: At first excited, then scared. Mostly in shock for the first while.
What was the parent's reactions?: My parents: Supportive. His parents: Not so supportive.
What was friends and family reactions?: Some excited. Some not so excited.

BABY
Due date: September 24.
Do you want to know the sex?: Yes.
Do you know the sex?: Yes.
If so, boy or girl?: Girl.
Any names?: Olivia Kate.
Any ultrasounds?: One.
Have you heard the heartbeat?: Yes.
Baby ethnicity?: Caucasian
Who do you think baby will look like?: Well, not to brag. I probably have the cute genes.
Will baby have any siblings?: A brother.
Will baby have their own room?: I don't know?
What is baby's nursery theme?: Girl?
Have you and dad felt baby move?: I have. He hasn't.

LABOR
Who is your OB/GYN?: Dr. Smith.
What hospital will you deliver in?: American Fork.
Who will be in the delivery room?: Sisters, mom, Dustinn and Val.
Will you use medication?: I don't know.
Are you scared about labor?: Yep.
Will you videotape or take pictures?: Pictures maybe video.
How will you react when you see baby? Cry.
What will you say?: HELLO!!!!!!!!!!!

MISCELLANEOUS
Did you have morning sickness?: I did a lot more in the second trimester.
Did you have any cravings?: I craved a few things at one time then got sick of them. Chips and Salsa. But now I crave the #7 from Sonic (Popcorn chicken) and instead of fries I get mozzarella sticks. I also crave chewing on ice. Pebbled ice.
Did you have any mood swings?: More than you can ever imagine.
Are you a high risk pregnancy?: Not that I know of.
Any complications?: I hope not.
Formula or breastfeeding?: Formula :]
Have you bought anything for baby yet?: I bought her a few onesies. A pink BYU onesie. A flower sundress and pink slippers.
When did you start to show?: I popped a belly out at 17 weeks.
How long could you wear your regular clothes?: Still wearing them.
Are you excited?: VERY.
Who will help with baby after their born?: Well, she'll be living with in Virgina with her family :]
What is your favorite thing about being pregnant?: The excuse to be a BEEWITCH.
What is the worst thing about being pregnant?: Being fat and exhausted 24/7.

BD&ME :]

What are your middle names?:
Mine: I don't have a middle name, Jinelle is a middle name a friend made up for me in JR. high.
His: Ryan
How long have you been together?
We dated for about 6 months.
How long did you know each other before you started dating?
2 months.
Who asked who out?
He asked me.
Who said I love you first?
Me. But it was cute. I remember, we were just laying in his bed about to go to sleep and he was teasing me and I just looked at him and I said, "I love you." And he said, "What did you say?" And I said, "I love you." He rolls on top of me and kisses me everywhere and whispers in my ear, "I love you, too." :] Then I yelled, GOSH TAKE FOREVER! He said he was too scared to tell me first.
How old are each of you?
Me: 19
Him: 22
Do you have any children together?
Obviously :] Just this one.
What about pets?
I have a kitten named Jasper.
Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?
Being pregnant.
Did you go to the same school?
He graduated before me. But he went to Lone Peak. I went to Lehi.
Are you from the same hometown?
Nope.
Who is the smartest?
Me, I've stuck around through this whole thing. Not to be cocky.
Who is the most sensitive?
Probably me.
Where do you eat out most as a couple?
We ate out at Olive Garden A LOT.
Where is the farthest you two have traveled together as a couple?
Utah to Idaho then back to Utah.
Who has the worst temper?
Me.
Who does the cooking?
Well, we did make pizza together. But he's more of a cook than me.
Who is the most social?
We're both social.
Who is the neat-freak?
None of us. Ha.
Who is the most stubborn?
We're both realllllly stubborn.
Who hogs the bed?
ME! HAHHA. He hogs me though. Especially when I'm trying to fall asleep. I remember one night he licked my BACK to keep me awake!
Who wakes up earlier?
Him.
Where was your first date?
Well, we always went out to movies. But one night he surprised me and he was like, "You're going to be late to school." (When I was in dental school) And it was the first time he took me out to eat to Olive Garden. It was SO sweet.
Who has the bigger family?
Well his parents and my parents both had 6 kids. But he has more nieces and nephews.
Him: 2 sisters and 3 brothers. 4 nephews and 2 nieces.
Me: 5 sisters. 3 nieces. And a nephew on the way.
Do you get flowers often?
Nope. But I told him he doesn't have to be afraid to buy them for me anytime :]
Who do you spend the holidays with?
Each other. We live close enough that I went there for an hour to his house for Christmas Eve then he came to my house for an hour.
Who is more jealous?
I don't really know. I'm probably more jealous. But I'm not a lot.
How long did it take to get serious?
Not long. :]
Who sings better?
HIM.
Who does the laundry?
I do.
Who’s better with the computer?
Him.
Who drives when you are together?
Him :] even though I'm the one with the car.
Who picks where you go to dinner?
We agree, usually. I just am VERY picky. I do not enjoy mexican or chinese.
Who is the first one to admit when they’re wrong?
Me.
Who wears the pants in the relationship?
I do baby. This relationship is non-existent.
Who has more tattoos?
It's equal. We don't have any tattoos.
Who eats more sweets?
Me.
Who cries more?
Me.
Are you two still a couple?
Not at all.