Wednesday, September 22, 2010

The Name Game

I've realized that it's sort of coming to the end of just my journey. I'm sharing it with somebody else. So I've decided to think of some names to change it and I'd LOVE your help. I'm probably the most indecisive person you'll ever meet. So I'm creating a poll. When I get back from my honeymoon I'll check the poll and begin the process, while I'm in the process of changing my last name. Which I'm wondering if I really can give myself the middle name Jinelle. For those of you who don't know, I don't have a middle name. My best friend since like the 6th grade, who is also my maid of honor, gave it to me. I needed a middle name. If anyone knows, I'd love to just keep that as my middle name. Everyone else thinks it is. How boring of my maiden name to be my middle name ;)

Here are the names:
The Darling Despains
The Daily Despain
The Despain Darlings
The Despain Files
SJ & T.Will
Becoming Stefanie Despain
The Despain Diaries

If you have any ideas, I'd LOVE to hear them.

It is officially September 22nd. But I don't know what it is lately. If it's just the stress of the wedding or if it really is just all the memories of the last year that has practically brought me to tears every night. Tayler is a trooper to handle such a cry baby like me.

I will continue this in a later blog. I hope I will have time to do it. I'm getting my hair colored and my nails done so I'm prettified for zee wedding. 2 days. Shoot. I thought it'd NEVER get here. I also thought Olivia's birthday would never get here either but she'll be 1 in 1 day. Unbelievable. I miss her with all of my heart. <3 I'm thinking about the J's today and I can't wait to see them TOMORROW!!


  1. CONGRATS! I'm so excited for you, I love being married. Even when it's hard. :D It's good to have your best friend by your side all the time.

  2. I'd go with the Despain Files. I like the sound of The Daily Despain but then I'd expect a post everyday hahahaha.

  3. I can't believe your getting married! It seems like yesterday you wrote you were engaged! It is going to be so beautiful Stefanie..

  4. I like Jinelle for a middle name. But I'd keep your maiden name as well (so you'd have 2 middle names). There is a lot of heritage with that name. That's why I chose to keep it as my middle name. OR you could use Jinelle for a daughter's name in the future.

    I like Becoming Stefanie Despain. It's not like Tayler is going to be posting, so it's still your blog.

    I can't wait to see you TOMORROW and to finally meet Olivia and Tayler.

  5. Becoming Stefanie Despain sounds the best to me

  6. I Like Stefanie Jinelle Grawe Despain! For the blog name, I like Despain Diaries! It's a ringer! :D