tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1640786534203215797.post7574428320132117883..comments2023-10-11T08:41:39.055-07:00Comments on Stefanie Jinelle's Journey: Sad SessionStefanieJinellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08501326936851342628noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1640786534203215797.post-28950093592504177392009-05-31T22:00:46.315-07:002009-05-31T22:00:46.315-07:00Erika- I think I remember that mom told me I was h...Erika- I think I remember that mom told me I was her "problem child" she didn't come out and say "black sheep" but to summarize that up. That's what I got. My validation was being sent away because none of her other kids have been sent away.<br /><br />I have also heard about multiple grievings through all of this. And I am trying to prepare myself aka anticipatory grief. I anticipate placing.StefanieJinellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08501326936851342628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1640786534203215797.post-40432035613707861582009-05-31T20:15:12.890-07:002009-05-31T20:15:12.890-07:00I agree with Erika! Everybody goes through that pr...I agree with Erika! Everybody goes through that process of feeling like they are the "Black sheep" of the family. We have our own experiences in our lives to make us feel that way, and also act that way.swimmingviolisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05332869000370012703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1640786534203215797.post-54136254220757544832009-05-31T19:16:01.876-07:002009-05-31T19:16:01.876-07:00Were you ever verbally labeled Black Sheep by anyo...Were you ever verbally labeled Black Sheep by anyone in the family (well, besides Kim)? Because I don't think you were. Did you know that at one point I thought of MYSELF as the black sheep? And so did Ruthann? I think that the whole term "Black Sheep" is Satan's tool to give us an excuse for our bad choices. We think, "Well, I'm just not like them so I do things differently. I'm a bad person, I'm not as good as so and so. I can't change, it's just how I am..." etc. It takes an effort and a desire to change our viewpoint and I have definitely seen your desire and your attitude shifting. <br /><br />The people I talk to the most is definitely my family. When we are in high school we feel like our friends are the most important to us, but really it's our family that is. At the end of the day, during our hardest trials it is our family that is there for leaning on.<br /><br />Oh, and I've heard that you may go through the grieving process more than once, so you may want to be prepared for that possibility.Erikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11841804064852974740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1640786534203215797.post-49972693182968259772009-05-30T16:22:19.157-07:002009-05-30T16:22:19.157-07:00Hey! and here is my blog I've had it for about a y...Hey! and here is my blog I've had it for about a year and a half but haven't really been keeping up on it... but right now I'm doing my best to keep up on it really but if you'd like to look at it here is the Link and Val and Erika if you guys would like to read you guys can! You have my permission! :D <br /><br /><br />http://www.swimmingviolistfunplace.blogspot.com/swimmingviolisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05332869000370012703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1640786534203215797.post-3160053420977868852009-05-30T16:01:12.848-07:002009-05-30T16:01:12.848-07:00Oh and By the Way! You totally just made my day! T...Oh and By the Way! You totally just made my day! This weekend has been a struggle so far... :P I failed my Pharmacy Tech test and I can't sign up for it for 90 Days, and by that time comes my Year will be up... so I might have to go through the course again and do more School next January... But this time... I will definatly take the test pretty much soon after I am done with the Class again so that I have that everything fresh on my mind! And I will definatly Do better this next time! Lesson Learned pretty much! :Dswimmingviolisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05332869000370012703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1640786534203215797.post-45966246945367548302009-05-30T15:58:24.232-07:002009-05-30T15:58:24.232-07:00Wow!! I don't really know what to say except for A...Wow!! I don't really know what to say except for Amazing! ( know weird right? I like almost bawled! But I give you *Hug*! :D hehehe! :D But yeah! I Love ya tons Stefanie! :D Do you remember Jonny Lingo? That is a perfect example of S.B.S Cause people gave Mahana the saying "Mahana You Ugly" So she believed she was Ugly most of her life. And the Only person that didn't portray her that way we Jonny Lingo! :D He made her feel special, like a Princess! My Dad has always told me that "You don't look beautiful unless you feel beautiful!" And I agree with Loni! You have come a long road and Look at you now!! :D You have made the quote "Trials Ties Families Hearts together!" You have portrayed that very well! And I really do look up to you for that! :D Even though I have always been really close to my family most of my life(yes there were sometimes where I would space myself from them, including that one time about a month or two ago...) And my attitude would be different. I DO look up to you for you being able to involve your family! And seeing you now! You look like a better person that what you were a year ago even!! :D You Look more happy(despite your time of trial right now), you seem to want to really do your best to keep Heavenly Father in your life! I don't really know all of this stuff, but You have definatly been an example to me in my life right now! and if I were in this type of situation I would be following your footsteps and do the best I can to get through that trial(you know what I mean?) Also, remember when I brought you Ice Cream Last year and we watched Juno(by the way, I Love that movie!! :D Thanks for inviting me to watch it! :D I very much enjoyed it! :D) Anyways... one of the things that poked out at me ( I thought of this along with the S.B.S was "Your future spouse will Love you now matter mood you're in, how you feel, or how Ugly you feel you look." We all deserve great guys! <br /><br />Ok... Sorry for the Long Novel! LOL I tend to do that a lot but that is what was on my mind to try to help you a little bit better(I hope). If you need anything... you know my number, e-mail, heck you know where I live! If you need to go on a walk and just talk I'll listen and give you a shoulder to cry on! (Hey That's What Friends are for! :D) I am very Excited for you! Love ya!swimmingviolisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05332869000370012703noreply@blogger.com