tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1640786534203215797.post6096175557625509685..comments2023-10-11T08:41:39.055-07:00Comments on Stefanie Jinelle's Journey: Day 11: FriendsStefanieJinellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08501326936851342628noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1640786534203215797.post-72654917311978401002010-04-02T21:09:41.260-07:002010-04-02T21:09:41.260-07:00I don't know you either. But I have been readi...I don't know you either. But I have been reading your blog for a while now.<br />I think you have and are handling things so well and you should be commended for it! You are an amazing young woman!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1640786534203215797.post-26960184946127945352010-04-02T15:59:47.213-07:002010-04-02T15:59:47.213-07:00I also don't really know you but I have been m...I also don't really know you but I have been moved by your blogs. I have cried with your pains and your hurts. You have inspired me. I am so proud of you and how you are trying to keep going and improve yourself. You have been through a lot and still hang in there and keep strong. You are an example to me. Thanks for sharing your feelings and your story.Shari Knudsenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08808334368199471582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1640786534203215797.post-34634241376461991332010-04-02T07:23:07.276-07:002010-04-02T07:23:07.276-07:00I don't know you or anything, but I don't ...I don't know you or anything, but I don't think you're being selfish at all. Those naysayers should realize that you're grieving and let you handle that in your way. Don't feel bad that you're distancing yourself at this time, just remember to go back and spend quality time with them. Some may be trying to be there to comfort you and get upset when you don't want it right then. I hope everything turns out well for you, good luck with the fun wedding planning.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15591948401522322344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1640786534203215797.post-17423983441930342522010-03-31T16:47:00.626-07:002010-03-31T16:47:00.626-07:00I think that friends and family should understand ...I think that friends and family should understand that getting engaged changes your life. There is one specific person you are preparing to spend the rest of your life with. When you are engaged and then married your priorities change. It gets more difficult to do things with single friends, they simply don't understand that your life is never going to be the same. You are growing so much in this time in your life. You are truely growing up. And until some friends go through it themselves they won't understand why you might have drifted apart. (there are some friends who are wonderful and adjust with you!) you shouldn't allow anyone to rain on your parade of preparing for you marriage. Unfortunately, you have had to deal with a loss in this time of your life. It can't be easy to jugle two very emotional things. So peole just need to back off and let you do your thing!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com